Staying unmarried
Posted on | July 21, 2010 | Comments Off
I always tell the people around me that marriage is not the end all and be all of living. They should stop looking at me with pity or regret in their eyes. Because I don’t feel that way for myself. If marriage is for me, then it will come. It may be tomorrow, next week, next quarter, three years from now, or when I turn 60! Who knows, right?
Personally, I don’t want to get married. That’s my stand now. It may change in the future but right now, all I want is to be able to enjoy life as a single woman. I’ve been tied to my obligations since I turned 19 and although I don’t have any regrets of being a responsible daughter and eldest sister, I also have this yearning to be free from any worries and to experience the things I sacrificed in favor of family.
And I know I can do all it as long as I am single. Thus, the need to be unmarried.